So this is two different cases of what happened when I attempted to use OKC for online dating. I just gotten out of a rough two year-nearly three years of a relationship and I was hurt and some stuff happened, that is to personal to speak of. So I got on made my profile was happy with the site so far, plenty of people to attempt to talk to. Now I won’t say I’m this horrid ugly girl or whatever but I’m average, yea I’m plus sized what not but it didn’t bother me. I had a few near dates had a lot of creeps was used to it and it was gonna be ok. Well this first experience ended with me ok, and just odd at college.
Lets say his name is Ryan well, I was on the site just browsing saw his profile a few times said why not and messaged him. It started pretty good, we talked about various things and we thought about meeting but never set a date up. Well I convinced him to go into college get a degree even a basic one, he thought about it, but we never went back to the subject. Well Start of Fall semester of this year walked into my Western Civ 1 class and sat near the front got through class and was either in the Student Union or sitting at home when I get a message a creepy one. It was like “so I think I saw you today and this is what you were wearing” instantly im spooked because I thought it was freaky he knew what I was wearing. Come to find out, he was the guy that sat behind me in that class. Well our class was moved to a closer building and we sat with each other. I noticed he didn’t look like his profile pic, it was a little different and he wasn’t clean shaven. Well it was alright, we got along good. We went out ONCE not as a date but as friends it was fun but we ended up at the water view area, (think of it as make out point) we didn’t do crap just talked, i helped him get a game emulator on his phone for Pokemon. Red flag time, he mentioned how he just dumped his girlfriend a few weeks ago. I was like alright not that nice of a guy, we left got lost finally got home was cool. Well what made it so creepy and him so freaky was we had a project to do together, did not work out the program killed my laptop and it died, and told the teacher can’t do it, I’m leaving the class and then voiced my reasons. I told the guy exactly what I told the teacher and thus i said hey its my fault too what not, the guy FLIPPED OUT on me saying “he saw how I truly was that I was trying to make him look bad etc and how he had half the project done.” (He didn’t all he gave me was a half page of notes not even half a page like 3 lines). I was like you know what? whatever go to hell what not. Come to find out from one my good friends, that the same guy tried to get with a girl who ended up dating my friend. (and I don’t mean making out, he tried to get her to screw him and wasn’t to nice about it. She kicked his ass and left) and found out he did the same thing with another girl. She also kicked his ass. Well now he’s always at college with me, he sits near me at times and its so funny because I being who I am talks about a guy I am currently working out dating. The fact that I almost dated a guy that was almost a attempted attacker freaked me out and I refuse to go with anyone from OKC.
Second story, this ones even better. A guy messaged me saying how pretty and beautiful I was, I was taken aback because its not normal. (lets say his name is Sam) Well I check out his profile and what hits me the most is how he talks about sports and his life and such, kinda over demanding in a way. Then I notice he says hes open to Casual Sex. uh nuh no way in hell am I gonna get near a guy like that. I give him excuse after excuse as to why I’m not available, no car, no permit I have work and college the works. And he kept begging me to meet him pressuring me saying he just wanted an hour of my time he’d drive to see me (hes only a state away less than 40 minutes or so) and I’m like I give you reasons and you won’t respect them and finally I say I ain’t interested we aren’t matching and hes like I won’t beg you for your time and I say look I have another guy that I’m into etc and he messaged me back, not sure what he said, tryin to keep it from going to crazy. But I finally had to tell him I’m into another guy lol. He got mad because I was gonna meet a guy in a closer town than him and I was like I’ve been talking to him for a year or so not you. He got so mad. But that’s why you block a creep.
Just a warning to any young girls reading these stories or my own. Is all true 100% and I am prolly not much older than you (I’m 21) just know if you go on a dating site ALWAYS be careful and use Google’s reverse image search to your advantage and check user names etc. If they give you a first and last name ALWAYS CHECK IT. Have fun and be safe. I know I’ll be a lot better at who I meet or talk to lol.